Chesca Deans

23rd March 2025

Modesty, Misunderstood: The Truth About Modest Fashion.

Having been brought up with the absence of faith, any style that could be classified as modest was just my personal preference rather than a religious choice. As mentioned in my previous blog, I have a natural instinct to layer, drape and drench myself in fabrics and a variety of garments. As someone who visually aligns with Western norms, no one questions or assumes any deeper meaning behind my style, but if a woman dresses in a more traditionally Islamic sense of modesty, some Western perspectives immediately assume it is rooted in dominance and oppression. These conflicting narratives surrounding 'modest fashion' only reinforce the ongoing misunderstanding of why people choose to dress modestly and what it all really means.

some Western perspectives immediately assume it is rooted in dominance and oppression.

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Modesty is the Oppression of Women

​The notion that modesty equates to oppression is a prevalent misconception, particularly in Western contexts. It's a perspective that often stems from a limited understanding of cultural and religious practices that lead to generalised assumptions about individuals who choose to dress modestly. The choice to be modest is more often the fact of it aligning with their cultural identity rather than an imposed mandate - an outlook that regularly coincides with broader Islamophobic narratives that depict Muslim women as universally subjugated, overlooking the diversity of their experiences and personal choices. 

 

Whilst we're living in a time where the battle for things like gender equality is still continuous in Western society, I think it's necessary to educate that the emotions and well-being of women have always been prioritised in Islam. Modesty is written as an encouragement and not a mandate with specified penalties. Understanding modesty requires a nuanced and flexible viewpoint to respect individual choices and cultural circumstances where modesty can look different for different people. 

"If we assume modesty is always dictated by external forces we miss the richness of personal choice."

 

Modesty is Only for Religious Purposes

People embody modesty in different ways, for different reasons, and at different times. It is very subjective and should be at the discretion of the wearer, as fashion is deeply psychological - trends are merely just a factor. It is an extension to their relationship with their body, their individuality, and even their perception of control.

 

If I look to myself, although I desire to be swathed in fabric because I love it, I do often find that certain cuts or exposures make me hyperaware of my body in ways that feel uncomfortable or even unsettling. Whether I'm constantly having to shift and pull the garment throughout the day or if I've noticed unwanted attention, I've always found that my own style that could be seen as "modest" is my happy-place where I can exist without having to constantly monitor how my clothes are sitting or how I am being perceived by others. My modesty is not always a conscious choice. I'm not searching "modest clothes" when looking to buy, I just have a natural gravitation to things that align with my style that are also more modest in approach.    

 

At its core, modesty is an act of autonomy. People choose to dress in ways that resonate with them rather than that of social pressures. The idea that revealing more equates to empowerment is just as one-dimensional as the idea that covering up is always about shame. Sometimes, modesty (and other styles) is just purely about wearing what allows someone to feel most authentic to themselves.

Modesty Doesn't Have a Place in High Fashion

When the topic of high fashion, runways, editorials come up in conversation, I admit I instantly picture something like a 90s Versace show - bejewelled bras, metallic mini dresses and bondage looks. Rarely do I picture something with modest intent or even a subconsciously more modest approach. Is this because of what I'm acclimatised to, the representation I see coming from Western society myself, or is it because there's a genuine undercurrent that modesty doesn't sit well in high fashion? 

 

If we take 90s Versace, theres a vibrancy, a shock value, theatrics - all of which are maximalist in direction that dominate mainstream runway culture. The fashion landscape is riddled in abundance with these traits and it's often so loud that anything other is muffled out of the memory of the viewers. However, we are witnessing the rise of modest influencers, modest designer capsule collections, and modest runway models *Cue the incomparable Halima Aden*. As mentioned before, I have designed Eid collections for European commercial retail giants, who wish to expand their audience reach and provide suitable styles for such celebrations that are easily accessible in the European market. Luxury brands like Tom Ford and Alexander McQueen have all released "Ramadan" collections, however, part of me feels a lack of sincerity or authenticity to these as I struggle to understand their reason behind the use of "Ramadan" - the month of fasting, rather than "Eid" which is the celebration and the time to dress up... Am I missing something? Asking for genuine reasons. 

 

If high fashion is the pinnacle of artistry and craftsmanship, then modesty is not an anomaly. Modesty also isn't just in the context of tradition, it's a directional approach that is evident in western high fashion but is often not recognised or necessarily intentional. For example, Phoebe Philo revolutionised minimalism at Céline with fluid tailoring and structured, full-coverage designs. There was no big sign saying "Modest!", "This is modest!", " Look how modest we are!", but it was adoptable style that could fit into most global markets as it was. This confirms the place of modesty in high fashion - the absence of overt skin exposure does not mean an absence of intrigue, or craftsmanship. If anything, it demands more.

 

However legitimate the intention, there is a growing appetite for modest fashion and luxury brands are waking up to it. With brands like Max Mara & GCDS catering to and featuring hijab models in their shows, they are now acknowledging modest fashion but it's also time to actively including consumers in the conversations. 

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